I'm a very non-competitive person, so basically, I'm always not up for challenge. But then, when the situation arise, it does ignite the tiny weeny spark somewhere in me to accept the challenge.
And in such situation, usually because the compliments are not directed at me, so I feel disappointed, and I know I have to do something to earn those compliments.
In a way, I survive on compliments because I do bothered by people's opinions at times, which isn't very good lah, coz will think too much about other people's thoughts. But, who doesn't like to be complimented, right? Just have to sieve the quality and quantity out of it, truthful and sincere compliments.
It's a good cycle: want compliments, work towards the goal, earn the compliments, feel good about, put in more effort to achieve goals, earn more compliments.
Right, so I shall turn words into action. Time to hit the gym again.
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